Knowing this as well as you do should make you feel good about your decision to deny his request. Teenage boys are getting good at manipulating girls into giving them what they want. What you are is a girl who won’t be pushed or pressured by a guy into doing something she will surely regret later. There are several responses you can give and I’m going to help you with them.
He will share it with his friends, it will circulate through your high school, and you will probably be slut-shammed like that girl in your Geometry class last week. Is there anything you can do in order to keep this guys’ interest (because I know you still want it), but somehow prevent him from shaming you with the “prude” put-down?
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You quickly unlock your home screen and wait for the message to appear. “Send me a nude” Your excitement has quickly turned into anxiety. You can send the pic, risk him passing it around to all of his friends and earn yourself a “slut” label, or deny him, lose his interest and he’ll start telling people you’re prude. The only way to change the dating atmosphere is to demand change, girls.
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