We were both on a dating site and he quicky asked me to jump over to Yahoo and use regular email so I set up a bogus account on Yahoo and also gmail, and Installed the chat. Widowed, one child , age 15 however, once we got to regular email his emails were very choppy. He said he was self Employed oil rig engineer in Houston, Tx with 8 men working with him. He was very nice and protective at the beginning but soon after he tried to infiltrate into my life. I heard the horror stories and thought how stupid to fall for that rubbish. These scum bags have their scams down to a fine science. Do not give this person or persons money as they are scammers.
I tried to understand his feelings and he won my heart. He hasn't asked me for money and we have skyped twice. He says he has an 11 year old daughter named Angelita. This is why we need to sign the petition we can stop these Creatures, and we have that power. We talked on the phone and he always backed his stories with proof, so I was secure in knowing he was telling me the truth.
He begged me to support him, promising me that he will double my money if I can assist him. Today I had to hurry home so I could text him on time. Two months after my beloved military husband died I was friending anyone who asked as I was craving to hear from any of my husband's friends! He wrote to me in French and then would ask, "Do you want to know what I said my dear? On it was a clip of a fire on an oil rig..oil rig!!! But my heart won and sent him only three grand to aide him.
I said no..came back with 00 and I said no...the end he asked for at least 0 and I declined acusing him of being a fake..kind of CEO are you if you're not able to supply your material and pay your debts???? I decided to keep him occupied in order to maybe safe another sweet, kind woman like me. " He had me cut my finger as he did, (he sent an image of a finger with blood at the tip), he told me to repeat after him the vows that would bind us as BLOOD husband and wife! Low and behold he needed assistance with getting his 'Goods' from China so that he can make the repairs and finally come meet me in Minnesota. To this day I cannot believe I threw away money to that scum bag Nigerian 😡It took me a whole year to finally fully detach from him.
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