Perhaps you’ve been in an on-again-off-again cycle, perhaps you still harbor hope of reconciliation, or perhaps you just want to remain in their life.
In any of these situations, it may be useful for you to try and decipher whether or not your ex has moved on and fallen in love with someone else.
[Read: How to tell if he’s serious about you] After all, the start of a relationship is all about infatuation and lust.
If he says he loves you, yet gets flustered when he sees his ex or spends all the time thinking of his ex, can he ever love you when all he does is dream of her?
In this regard the courts do tend to acknowledge the reality that the longer your Ex has been in the new relationship, the greater the obligation on his or her partner to provide financial support to your Ex as well.Are you dating a guy who seems to have a rather soft spot for his ex? If you’ve been in a passionate relationship that had to end, you’d know how hard it is to get over a special someone.If you’re troubled by the quicksand of sappy emotions your man has for his ex flame, you’re not alone. Really now, if he’s still in love with his ex, what the heck is he doing with you? While it’s not easy to forget someone you once loved, there’s a thin line between forgetting someone and staying in love with them.Resist the urge to over-analyze and treat mixed messages or hot and cold behavior with the attention they deserve — none.Don’t get sucked in and insist on absolute transparency.